The idea of writing your first book can be seriously intimidating. Maybe even intimidating enough to make you stop before you start.
In my experience, a lot of that overwhelm comes from focusing on too much at once–especially for the first draft of your first novel. The reality is, there’s A LOT you shouldn’t be focused on at this stage.
To help you get away from some of those sources of intimidation, I put together my top five things you don’t need to worry about.
So with that in mind, here are five things NOT to do:
5 Awesome Writing Tips for Writing Your First Book
1) Don’t focus on the end result
The big picture concept of A Finished Novel (and all of the work it would take to make that happen) can be one of the more intimidating hurdles to get passed.
The whole idea gets so much more manageable if you keep your focus on what you can reasonably accomplish within a single day. If you can write 100 words, do that. If you can write 500, go for it. Be reasonable and focus on today’s task only.
It may not seem like much now, but every word you write gets you a step closer to completing your book.
2) Don’t focus on how long writing your first novel will take
There’s a quote by Earl Nightingale that I love: “Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.”
I think this is particularly true with writing a book. It’s a massive undertaking and it will most definitely take time. It might very well take years. But seriously, so what?
So what if it does take years? If this is something you want to do, why does it matter how long it will take?
Even if you only write for fifteen minutes a day on your lunch break and it takes you two years to finish a draft, you’ll have a finished draft in two years! Those two years are going to pass whether you’re writing your book or not.
If writing a book is something you’ve always wanted to do, not writing isn’t going to get you closer to that goal. Writing for fifteen minutes a day will.
And if you start today, you’ll be one day closer to the finish line.
3) Don’t try to make your first book perfect
I get it. Staring at the blinking cursor when you have a story to tell can be daunting. You want to make sure you’re picking the right words and saying exactly what you mean.
But those expectations are enough to hold you back when you’re writing your first novel.
I challenge you to give yourself permission to be imperfect and just start writing. Put your characters on the page and let them run. Have fun with your story.
Your only concern at this point should be to put words on the page. They don’t have to be the “right” words. You can find those later. (For more on this, I’ve got a whole post on Why Writers Should Embrace Imperfection in Writing.)
And while you’re at it, don’t feel like a chapter has to be perfect for you to move on. Your only goal of a first draft is to finish it. Don’t let yourself fixate too much on what you’ve already written.
Once you finish a chapter move on to the next. If you don’t like a chapter or section, make note of it somewhere, but don’t try to fix it now. That’s a revision problem, not a drafting problem.
4) Don’t think of your readers
Another super intimidating element of writing is the idea of someone actually reading what you write.
Your readers should certainly be considered and there will be time for them down the road. But now is not that time.
Now is the time to be selfish. Think about yourself. Don’t write to be read, write to be happy. Write to tell yourself a story you want to experience. Odds are, if it’s a story you want to experience, there will be readers out there who like the same things you do and who will love to read it.
But don’t worry about them now. Worry about yourself. Write for you. Write to be happy.
5) Don’t put pressure on your first book
It can be hard to get started if you’ve decided you need to write the next bestseller. You may start writing, read over what you’ve written, decide it doesn’t read like your favorite bestseller, then delete it all and try again another day (or not).
Not only does that make it difficult to write, but it’s also squashing your voice. I would argue that the highest compliment isn’t to have your work compared to anyone else but to create work that others are compared to.
In order to make that happen, you first have to let your voice exist on the page. So allow yourself to write with no pressure or expectations. Write the story your heart is begging you to tell. It doesn’t have to be anything while you’re writing it. It just has to get written.
Bonus tip: Repeat regularly and build a habit.
Books get written when writers show up at their computers or notebooks on a regular basis. It doesn’t matter how bite-sized your daily goals are or how limited your time frame is. It’s all progress, and progress adds up.
So start writing your book today. The sooner you type those first words, the sooner you’ll reach THE END.
I hope this gets you writing!
Now it’s your turn: Got a tip that helps you start writing? Tell me all about it in the comments below and follow me on Instagram!
Chris says
Sensible and encouraging tips. Thanks very much.
Chris
Meghan Rogers says
Thanks, Chris. I hope they help!
Travis says
Omg I needed to hear this right now so that I could continue to write my first draft.I got caught up with everything you mentioned thanks!! so much for this advice!!
Meghan Rogers says
Hi Travis, I’m so glad I could help! Good luck with the rest of your draft!!
Laurel Plimpton says
This post is extremely helpful and encouraging.
Thanks
Meghan Rogers says
Hey Laurel! Thanks for stopping by! I’m so glad I could help!
finja says
Thanks for these tips!! ๐
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Meghan Rogers says
Thanks for dropping by, Finja! I hope they help! ๐
Shelby says
Love this! I find it helpful to have a consistent writing routine if I want to write regularly.
Meghan Rogers says
Yes!! I totally agree–routines are so important!
Diane Farnsworth says
Thank you. I began a memoir years ago and wrote daily, but got lost in it by revising instead of moving forward. I now feel more motivated to print it out and organize the hardcopy before completing the next draft.
Meghan Rogers says
That’s awesome, Diane! I’m glad I could help! Good luck with it!
James N. Gherondas says
I feel I’m the strongest well-educated male advocate in this country with the desire to rid the world of ALL DEMENTIAS ! Why? I lost the better -part of yours truly ( the love of my life for 54 years plus ) on September 26, 2017 to DEMENTIA after what seemed an endless and helpless battle.taking place on a daily basis! I want to write,not one, but two books!
Both of which are to help others struggling while dealing with DEMENTIA of a loved one!
At the request of Senator Stabenow of Michigan, I wrote UNSUSPECTING – Our Personal story-. My therapist feels I should write our story. I presently have sent materials to 115 recipients in 14 states. This information is intended to help them . I would like to send you BOTH our story UNSUSPECTING and also “The Rose of my Life”. Not knowing whether or not I would be the first to depart this world, I wrote this personal story as well to let others ( friend, relatives, etc. ) know how God blessed both of us by bringing us together 54 years plus ago!! Any additional hints about writing a much needed book would be appreciated. Feta Stow ( thank you in Greek )
Irene says
For me, the parts that i write the best are the one i have previously ‘written’ in my head. Usually when i go to sleep, in shower, when i walk somewhere… i always think up stories and trust me that writing the parts you have already made up word by word in you head is wayyy easier than writing stuff you only have a small idea about.
Plus – a great post, thanks ๐ your words hit home. I’ve been writing something for about 3 years now and it seems end will not come untill another 2. I have lots of others stuff i want to write, but you’re right. The years will pass anyway. There are people writinh fanfictions in their 50s. I don’t have to worry. I feel like my will to write this thing has been renowned again. Thank you so much ๐
Meghan Rogers says
I’m so glad I could help! Thanks for reading! Good luck with your work!!
Naomi Lisa Shippen says
โTime passes anywayโ is what I take away from this article. There is a lot to be said by completing a novel is slow, steady increments. I have finished Number One and am about to embark on Number Two. I did.it by chipping away a little each day – you can, too!